Below are letters that I have written over the last few months about our situation and the mold we lived with, As you can probably see we are desperate at this point and really need some help. We do not so much need financial help as we need just a little asistance in relocating and spreading the word to keep others from suffering as we have. PLEASE spread the word to everyone you know!
God Bless!
The first letter is going to all MEDIA I can find an e-mail for.
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The letter below is one that I have been sending out to every media source I can find on the net. This letter is not a letter for the editorial section, it is a request for a story that will help others not go through what we have.
It's a long letter, and I am sorry for that, but it is hard to cram so many years of missery into a short letter. I want to thank you in advance for reading our story, and I Pray that The Shelbyville News will have a reporter do some research, (I've included some links at the end of our story, and have many more if needed), and do a story on this fast growing problem that so many people want to ignore. Ignoring some things may make them go away, but ignoring mold, will not make mold go away, it only causes illness, sadness, anger, and for many, death!
Thank you for your time, and God Bless you,
Carmella Dunkin
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Hello,
We are writing to you because we have a story that is not only very sad, but it is also very important that this story be heard, because it is happening to so many people all around the Country, especially in the Midwest. Toxic molds are killing Americans every day, and no one seems to care. The following story is our families story and what happened to us. After our story is five other families stories, (short versions), plus a few links to some info and news articles on mold and sick building syndrome that will shock you! We all are only six families out of tens of thousands that are going through, or have gone through what is now known as, "Sick building syndrome". I am begging each of you who receives this, to read it through, and please open your hearts and help us to get this message out for all to hear it. You are who the public listens too, and you can help make a difference. People are suffering and dying, and no one seems to care, other than those of us who are going through it too. Please think of how you would feel if you and your family were going through what the families below have gone through, and no one would listen to you or do anything to help you. I have suffered with tremendous pain throughout my entire body on almost a daily basis for the last few years. I have seen too many people suffering as myself and my family are, and no one caring to let the world know that there is a horrible problem that needs to be dealt with, but instead keeps being brushed under the rug. There are so many illnesses that are now being linked to toxic mold toxicity, and they are bad illnesses like, asthma, arthritis, COPD, rashes, headaches, bronchitis, cancers of all types, emphazemia, eczema, lupus, fibromyalgia, Multiple Sclerosis, bleeding lung in infants, this is only a few of the illnesses being linked to toxic molds, what is even worse, is the fact that there are many who have died from toxic mold, and it still continues to be hushed and those of us going through this are looked upon as a bunch of crackpots! Well I am fed up, and I will NOT sit quiet any longer. I am right now standing up and taking a stand against this horrible problem that maimes and kills, and I will NOT shut up until I am listened too and taken seriously.
We have a lot of info on toxic molds, and a more in depth write up on what we went through on our web site here. Here is our story,
We are a family of 5 suffering from what is called, "Sick Building Syndrome". This is a true story, my family and I honestly lived through this ordeal for 5 years before we even knew what was happening to us. Even though we are no longer in the moldy house, we still suffer daily from the effects of the mold that we lived with in that house for so long. We spent all those years there with the mold, and never knew it was there because it was growing within the walls, and under the floor in the crawl space. The reason it was growing was because the exterior of the house was not taken care of properly. It was a brick house, and over the years the mortar had chipped away, and years of rain getting into the open spaces between the bricks, started growing toxic molds in all sorts of pretty colors throughout the walls. Another problem which helped the mold to get started and growing, was the fact that there had been termites that did major damage to the foundation beams of the house.
We were only renters of that farm house, the owner acquired it through his father's estate and really lost very little because he had just cut a deal with a developer who is putting in sub divisions all over the 194 acres he owns. He made good money, plus got to continue to farm the land for two years after the deal. Us on the other hand, we lost everything we owned, clothes, furniture, toys, years and years of memories that can never be replaced. Dan bought me a stuffed animal for every birthday, Christmas, Valentine and Easter, since we got together 13 years ago. All of those are gone now, they all had to be thrown in the trash! We can get over all of that and move on, but what we lost that we will never get over, or get back 100%, is our health. We are now so allergic to so many things, (pollens, plants, molds, dust, chemicals, medications, etc.), that daily life is often times very painful and unbearable, and continues to get worse. Our children are not as bad as Dan and I, but they have problems if they get around any mold, or anything they are allergic to. For Dan and I it is a bit different. I have pain daily all throughout my body. I have pain that goes from my back, around into my ribs, and into my chest. This pain last for days with no relief at all, and the pain in my chest is so bad, it feels like I am having a heart attack! I have pain throughout my legs and feet, my arms, shoulders, and hands. I love working in the theatre, but I cannot even do that anymore. I do costume work for our Community Theatre and I went to work on costumes last week, and after only two hours I was in so much pain, I could hardly stand it. I have knots on my fingers that seem to be growing from the knuckle and when I bend my fingers, or bump the knots, they hurt something awful. I have trouble breathing all the time, as does Dan. The mold did a lot of damage to my lungs, and Dan's too. Dan also has COPD, and the children as well as Dan and I, all have asthma. We all have a weird rash that will not go away, and we all suffer from headaches, and a cough that won’t stop. I’m always tired and have little to no energy at all.
We now live in a modular home, which was the only house we found after 6 months of looking, that did not have mold in it, unfortunately this house has a problem with the central air system not cooling at all because of the duct work being disconnected in different places under the house, and it puts a mass amount of dust and insulation fibers into the air, making it hard for us to breath. It would be bad for anyone, but for us with our lungs being so damaged, it is very bad. The result for us is we cannot use the central air at all because all the dust and insulation gets in our lungs and causes a reaction that starts an infection in our lungs. It’s just another issue we have trouble with because of the damage the mold caused, and so many people have these same problems, and someone has got to stand up and speak out for all of us!That is our story, now I will share with you a few other stories of others going through similar problems as our family. Then I will put in a few links so you can read more on this issue.
Family # 1
This is a friend that used to live across the street from us, they had a toilet over flow while they were gone on vacation for two weeks, when they arrived home, the water had already caused so much mold to grow that my friend become very ill and was unable to breath and had to leave the house. This was after only 15 minutes!!! In the end it cost my friend over $70,000.00 and more than 6 months of renting an apartment, (they could not live in the house at all), before the mold was all cleared out and the house did not make my friend sick anymore.
Family # 2
This family lived in a house for just under two years with mold growing in their basement. The following is an excerpt from an e-mail they sent to us;My husband was diagnosed with MS shortly after moving to Florida from NY. We had a serious mold problem in our basement of the house in NY, which our landlord refused to take seriously or correct. My husband had to go down and remove most of the weather insulation in the basement to keep it from getting worse. But the basement continued to leak and as our laundry facilities were down there we continued to use the basement. I first became suspect to the mold because my son (5 at the time) continued to have serious sinus problems which they kept trying to say were allergies and had him on every allergy med known to man (to no avail). When we moved to Florida my pediatrician sent him to an ear, nose and throat specialist who had to remove his adenoids, tonsils and insert tubes in his ears. I had suspected the mold while in NY but none of the doctors took me seriously. Now with my husband's illness, I wonder just how much we were affected by that mold??? It really is disheartening, considering we tried to have it taken care of and got no results. I even went so far as spraying the basement walls with bleach to try and keep the mold from growing but once in drywall the only way to remove it is to rip down the drywall. And as you probably are aware of, when you rent you do not have that option. We lived in NY for just under two years, but I think it was two years too long.... Thanks for the info and I will certainly look into the group you suggested.
Family # 3
The following was posted on my blog at Myspace;
Bless your heart! You have walked in my shoes. And I will validate that toxic mold can kill. It killed my hubby back on Jan. 15, 2002. And I was bedridden for a year in horrible pain. I couldn't stand or walk far without having to sit down. Thank God I am much better now, but still suffer, 7 years down the road, from chronic sinusitis and I, too, can smell out mold and always I am affected by it. I also had my myelin sheaths around my nerve endings destroyed, through out my body, and can not be out in the cold at all. The pain is just horrible.
Keep on spreading your word.
Family # 4
A friend I met on Myspace has had the same allergies as me all her life. Shortly before Easter, she stayed at her son’s house which was being cleaned from mold in one room. She is now very sick, the doctors keep giving her one drug after the next and nothing is helping her. She is very sick, and it is sounding very much like she is sick from the mold.
Family # 5
This one is more well know. Here is a copy of an article on the Gov. of LA mansion; you can find the article here; http://environmentallegal.blogs.com/sholzer/2005/09/posthurricane_m.html
(Excerpt from the linked page) October 18, 2005
While the average citizens of New Orleans are being encouraged to return to the city with little warning of potential health hazards from breathing mold and the toxins they produce, Governor Kathleen Blanco has been residing outside of the Governor’s mansion. The mansion has been undergoing a taxpayer paid $800,000 renovation, $500,000 of which is for mold removal.
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These are only five stories of people living with the effects of toxic mold poisoning, we are members of an e-mail list that about 2000 people who have lived or worked in a building with a mold problem, and are now suffering from all sorts of horrible illnesses. Below are a few links to sites on the Internet with a lot of info on toxic mold and what the citizens of this Country are going through because of it .
MOLDHELP.ORG - http://www.mold-help.org/content/view/33/
SF Enviroment - http://www.sfenvironment.com/articles_pr/2001/article/030501.htm
Science Daily - http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/1999/02/990208071455.htm
Black mold info center - http://www.inspect-ny.com/sickhouse.htm
We are not writing this because we want to get attention and be on TV, or be pitied or anything like that, because that is the last thing we want. We are doing this because this is a very serious problem, and people need to be educated about toxic molds and sick building syndrome and what it can do to them. I am only one voice and most people will not take the initiative to do something about a problem, but I have never been one to take things lying down, and this situation is no exception. I honestly feel that I have kept quiet for too long. I should have done what I am doing now, two years ago when we first discovered the mold inside the walls, and started researching it’s dangers. We’ve wasted two years that we could have been out there telling our story and warning others, but we let unbelieving people that treated us like we were crazy, keep us from getting out there and helping others from going through what we have. We can no longer do that, we have to stand up for all those out there who will not, or cannot stand up for themselves. Toxic mold has gotten so bad in the Midwest that people are getting very sick and they need someone who will care enough about them to spread the word on toxic molds and put a stop to it being swept under a rug.
Sincerely,
Carmella and Dan Dunkin Shelbyville, IN
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The second letter is to anyone who can help us, obtain work and housing in a dryer state, or on the road.
Hello,
We are writing to you because we need assistance with finding work we can do in exchange for housing and utilities. It is imperative that we leave the Midwest area ASAP, our story is below. We are a family of 5 suffering from what is called, "Sick Building Syndrome". Below you will find our story, it tells what we have gone through the last 6 years, and what we need to do in order to begin to heal. At the end of our story is a few personal references too.
We both are partially disabled, but we are very talented and there are many things that we can do on a part time basis, especially as a family unit. We are web designers and graphic artists, and could do any needed graphic, or web design work you may need done. Dan is an awesome artist, and does beautiful air brush work. We are talented in many areas, and even though we both suffer from back problems, we are not afraid of hard work, and will do all we can in order to provide for our family. Besides the work listed above, we could do mowing, edging, picking up trash, emptying trash cans, or any number of odd jobs that need done in a campground / RV park, cabin resort, etc. We are willing to do whatever needs to be done that we can physically do in exchange for housing and utilities. We do not need anything very big, a small cabin would be fine as long as it sleeps 5 and has kitchen amenities. We are prepared and ready to leave Indiana as early as mid May, so we will be available for any openings after that time.
We do have a small Internet business, which we will continue to work, so we would need access to the Internet, other than that, we will go where needed.
Here is our story, sorry it is long, but it is actually a short version of what we have on our web site at, http://www.thejoyofhope.com/toxic_molds.html
This is a true story, my family and I honestly lived through this ordeal for 5 years before we even knew what was happening to us. Even though we are no longer in the moldy house, we still suffer daily from the effects of the mold that we lived with in that house for so long. We spent all those years there with the mold, and never knew it was there because it was growing within the walls, and under the floor in the crawl space. The reason it was growing was because the exterior of the house was not taken care of properly. It was a brick house, and over the years the mortar had chipped away, and years of rain getting into the open spaces between the bricks, started growing toxic molds in all sorts of pretty colors throughout the walls. Another problem which helped the mold to get started and growing, was the fact that there had been termites that did major damage to the foundation beams of the house.
We were only renters of that farm house, the owner acquired it through his father's estate and really lost very little because he had just cut a deal with a developer who is putting in sub divisions all over the 194 acres he owns. He made good money, plus got to continue to farm the land for two years after the deal. Us on the other hand, we lost everything we owned, clothes, furniture, toys, years and years of memories that can never be replaced. Dan bought me a stuffed animal for every birthday, Christmas, Valentine and Easter, since we got together 13 years ago. All of those are gone now, they all had to be thrown in the trash! We can get over all of that and move on, but what we lost that we will never get over, or get back 100%, is our health. We are now so allergic to so many things, (pollens, plants, molds, dust, chemicals, medications, etc.), that daily life is often times very painful and unbearable, and continues to get worse with each day. Our children are not as bad as Dan and I, but they have problems if they get around any mold, or anything they are allergic to. For Dan and I it is a bit different. I have pain daily all throughout my body. I have pain that goes from my back, around into my ribs, and into my chest. This pain last for days with no relief at all, and the pain in my chest is so bad, it feels like I am having a heart attack! I have pain throughout my legs and feet, my arms, shoulders, and hands. I love working in the theatre, but I cannot even do that anymore. Last time I went to work on costumes, and after only two hours I was in so much pain, I could hardly stand it. I have knots on my fingers that seem to be growing from the knuckle and when I bend my fingers, or bump the knots, they hurt something awful. I have trouble breathing all the time, as does Dan. The mold did a lot of damage to my lungs, and Dan's too. Dan also has COPD, and the children as well as Dan and I, all now have asthma.
Here is a letter that my husband recently wrote to one of his friends about our situation;
I don't burden myself with it daily, but I just keep on tackling life one day at a time. About 7 years ago, I had a good paying job, owned a house, and basically thought everything was going well. One night I went in to work to discover I wouldn't be working there anymore. My boss said I was one of his best men, and everyone said I would never have to worry about lay offs. Sometimes life throws curves at us. We picked up a couple paper routes, and built a nice business on Ebay dealing with antiques and collectibles, then the next brick hit the fan. I came down a flight of stairs like a kid, but I don't wear a young mans clothes anymore, and my back spoke up to say it wasn't so young anymore either. I had a herniated disk, a bulging disk, and degenerative disk disease, I've lost about 3 inches of height since then. I could no longer stand up and work, something I'd done all my life, we were forced to file bankruptcy, we were talked into putting our house in the bankruptcy by our attorney, then when the mortgage company filed for a relief from stay, our attorney never responded so we got a foreclosure compiled on top of our bankruptcy. We could no longer do Ebay because of my back, the packing, hours at the auction, etc. We worked two paper routes for a few years, until my back degenerated to a point where I could not spend 3 hours in the car anymore. My back has improved since then, but I still have to be careful and cannot spend lengthy periods of time on my feet and need good support behind my lower back when I sit. Social Security denied me three times, so I was left on my own, penniless, out of work, and unable to work a significant job, with 4 children still living at home, one of which is handicapped. For the past seven years we have lived on our wits. I still run a paper route, we get a small SSI check for our autistic boy, and have taught ourselves how to make money on the Internet. I have an affiliate web site that I advertise and sell electronic equipment on, it did real well this past Christmas season, but we had to use the money to pay off debts we incurred over the past couple years trying to learn how to survive and paying bills. We've looked at houses in the area for the past year, and have found nothing within our budget that isn't mold infested. We did find one place, but for some reason the landlord will not rent to us. He is a young kid, and I think our bankruptcy scares him. Funny, we've danced for seven years on the edge of anxiety and disaster, yet my faith and my family have kept us going, and we have never lost hope. What we really would like to do is get an RV and travel the country working gourd shows. We worked one in Ohio on a cold rainy weekend and made about $600 selling Carmella's hand cream, the gourd report booklets, and gourd charts, but we had to pay the $600 to pay for the RV rental. It was a test that tells us we could do it, in conjunction with the Internet work, but due to the bankruptcy and foreclosure, we can't get financing on an RV, and my greatest fear is if we move to NM, we have no job lined up and renters will be weary of that. I'd take a tent and live in it if we had to, but somehow we have to find a way out of here because of how the mold is affecting us. Carmella actually suffers from Mold induced Fibromyalgia like symptoms, and we all have respiratory problems as a result of the mold exposure from the house we lived in. Oh yeah, I didn't mention it was the house we moved into after losing our house 7 years ago. Anyway, it was my turn to ramble... I know somehow our needs will always be provided and we will find a way some where, and we will continue to keep on working and pushing ourselves. one day the dam will burst and we will breathe easy again, we just haven't found the right crack in the dam yet. LOL....
It is costing us in excess of $1000 per month to rent someone else's house and pay utilities, and our paper route only covers about $700 of that. We could easily pay for a travel trailer or RV, even without the paper route just by our Internet business, but when the system failed us and no one wants to loan to us, we cannot even make any changes to help ourselves. We need someone willing and caring enough to offer us a hand up, not a hand out.
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As you can see we have to leave the Midwest. Our disabilities make it hard to work a full time job, but we are talented and crafty, and can do odd jobs here and there. We would gladly work in a campground or RV park, as long as we could get a cabin, that would be such an enormous help to us right now.
We so greatly appreciate you reading our story, and we hope to hear from you soon.
God Bless you, Sincerely, Carmella and Dan Dunkin (317) 364-3700 dan_carmella@thegourdreserve.com
Personal references:
Our Pastor from Hope's Point Baptist Church where we are members in good standing;
Edwin Mohr Shelbyville, IN
Below are a couple of the web sites we have done;
http://www.thejoyofhope.com http://www/thegourdreserve.com
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The third is to RV dealers in hopes that we can get in an RV which would enable us to easily travel and find a state we can live in with the least amount of mold.
Hello,
We are writing to you because we desperately need assistance in getting an RV or travel trailer. We are a family of 5 suffering from what is called, "Sick Building Syndrome". Below you will find our story, it tells what we have gone through the last 6 years, and what we need to do in order to begin to heal. At the end of our story is a few personal references. We know that the world is full of scams these days, and we want you to be able to talk to people who know us, and know our situation.
We want it known that we are not looking for any type of handout, we are only looking for a handup, we are more than willing to pay, but we have no down payment and we can only pay so much per month, and we cannot get financing, (see my husbands note below for explanation). However we could also repay with our services that we could provide to your company that would actually benefit you financially in a big way. One idea we thought of, is we could air brush an advertisement for your company on the side of the RV / trailer. My husband is an awesome artist and has his own airbrush, and we would GLADLY air brush any advertisement you would like onto the side and / or back of the RV. We would also spread the word to everyone looking for an RV, 5th wheel or TT that we meet along our journey' s, how your company is helping us out, and that if they are in the market for a new RV, they should go to you because you care about people, and your customers are #1, and you will take care of them and put them in the model of their dreams.
We feel God is leading us to travel and talk to people across the Country who need to be educated on molds and Sick Building Syndrome, so we are determined to travel and tell our story to everyone who will listen, but we need an RV, travel trailer, or something better than a tent, in order to do this, and help others before it is too late for them, as it was for us!
We are web designers and graphic artists, and would be more than happy to do any needed graphic, or web design work you may need done. We are talented in many areas that could benefit your company. Basically we could barter, our services for your RV or trailer. We do not need anything that is new, so long as it is clean and has no mold and has never had any water leaks that went unattended for any amount of time. To start us off, we do not need anything really big, only something big enough for the 5 of us, a little bit of room would be nice, (our handicapped son who is autistic likes to move around a lot), but it is not absolutely necessary if it means the difference between us being able to get an RV or not.
We also thought of a program that could be started, that would benefit others that are going through what our family has and is going through. Our story is not as rare as one might think, there are thousands of families in this Country with stories just like ours, some worse. Most of us started in the Midwest, and many of us have had to walk away from everything we owned and start over. Our family is one such family who had to do exactly that. Finding a home that is not contaminated even a little is almost impossible, and relocation to a dryer state becomes a do or die situation. Once you've lost everything, including your health, it is hard to start over, especially if you need to get away from the Midwest as we do. You have to find a home to rent that is clean, which means you need to travel to the new state and look. This is not possible for most. You also have to buy all new furniture, which also is costly and for some, done one piece at a time.
If there were a program in place that supplied families who have been affected by mold with an RV or Travel Trailer that they could comfortably live in full time, one with washer and dryer hookups in place, because most of us have severe allergies to almost everything, and cannot risk using a Laundromat because of chemicals and stuff that may have been used previously. The family could either travel the Country and enjoy life for awhile, which our family sure would enjoy after the pain we've all had to deal with for the past 4 years now. Or they could rent a space in a trailer park, or buy a cheap piece of land in NM or TX or some nice dry state, and feel safe in their clean, mold free RV / Travel Trailer, supplied so lovingly thanks to the RV company's "Safe Home For Sick Buildings Syndrome Families Program", or something like that. It would be an awesome program that could raise money to help offset the cost in so many ways. The trailers and RV's don't need to be knew either, only mold free, and clean of all allergens like dust and cigarette smoke. You could get donated RV's from folks that are upgrading and have a good clean used RV that they can afford to donate to the program instead of trade-in. Doing a program such as this would also give you a really good name and would have people WANTING to buy from YOU because of the good you are doing for others.
Here is our story, sorry it is long, but it is actually a short version of what we have on our web site here.
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This is a true story, my family and I honestly lived through this ordeal for 5 years before we even knew what was happening to us. Even though we are no longer in the moldy house, we still suffer daily from the effects of the mold that we lived with in that house for so long. We spent all those years there with the mold, and never knew it was there because it was growing within the walls, and under the floor in the crawl space. The reason it was growing was because the exterior of the house was not taken care of properly. It was a brick house, and over the years the mortar had chipped away, and years of rain getting into the open spaces between the bricks, started growing toxic molds in all sorts of pretty colors throughout the walls. Another problem which helped the mold to get started and growing, was the fact that there had been termites that did major damage to the foundation beams of the house.
We were only renters of that farm house, the owner acquired it through his father's estate and really lost very little because he had just cut a deal with a developer who is putting in sub divisions all over the 194 acres he owns. He made good money, plus got to continue to farm the land for two years after the deal. Us on the other hand, we lost everything we owned, clothes, furniture, toys, years and years of memories that can never be replaced. Dan bought me a stuffed animal for every birthday, Christmas, Valentine and Easter, since we got together 13 years ago. All of those are gone now, they all had to be thrown in the trash! We can get over all of that and move on, but what we lost that we will never get over, or get back 100%, is our health. We are now so allergic to so many things, (pollens, plants, molds, dust, chemicals, medications, etc.), that daily life is often times very painful and unbearable, and continues to get worse with each day. Our children are not as bad as Dan and I, but they have problems if they get around any mold, or anything they are allergic to. For Dan and I it is a bit different. I have pain daily all throughout my body. I have pain that goes from my back, around into my ribs, and into my chest. This pain last for days with no relief at all, and the pain in my chest is so bad, it feels like I am having a heart attack! I have pain throughout my legs and feet, my arms, shoulders, and hands. I love working in the theatre, but I cannot even do that anymore. Last time I went to work on costumes, and after only two hours I was in so much pain, I could hardly stand it. I have knots on my fingers that seem to be growing from the knuckle and when I bend my fingers, or bump the knots, they hurt something awful. I have trouble breathing all the time, as does Dan. The mold did a lot of damage to my lungs, and Dan's too. Dan also has COPD, and the children as well as Dan and I, all now have asthma.
We now live in a modular home, which was the only house we found after 6 months of looking, that did not have mold in it, unfortunately this house has a problem with the central air system, which is putting a mass amount of dust and insulation fibers into the air and making it hard for us to breath. There are leaks all throughout the air ducts causing the central system to suck air from the attic and crawl space. Unfortunately the owner has not been able to fix the problem and is convinced there is no problem, even though we have shown him the furnace filters thick with dust and pieces of insulation fibers all over it after only two weeks of use last summer. We told him the AC NEVER shuts off during the day, it would run from about noon till 10:00 PM without ever shutting off, and it still got up to 95 degrees in the house. He had the AC checked and there was nothing wrong with it, but the AC guy found leaks all under the house and said that the only way to fix the problem is to tear out all the tarping under the house and expose all the duct work and find all the leaks and disconnections and fix them. None of this seemed to matter to the owner, he duct taped a few of the ducts under the house, then refused to do anymore and said he felt he did all that could be done and would not do any more. So we cooked all summer long, with little relief, the owner never even tried to help us, or fix the problem, he only told us we would have to move because he didn't know how to fix the problem, and was not going to do anymore. We looked for another house since he was willing to let us out of our lease, but Shelbyville is so moldy, (it was a swamp at one time!), that nearly every house in this county has mold in it. We are so sensitive to mold after living with it for so many years, that any amount causes our son to have asthma attacks, and causes Dan and I horrible headaches, coughing, sneezing, shortness of breath, rashes, and horrible pains in my body, it's just really awful what we go through now that we have been sensitized to molds, and breathing in all this dust here, is just awful and choking us all the time. I'm so allergic now, that when I sweat it is like having acid poured on me, as it causes my skin to burn and turn beet red! It literally feels like I have acid on my face when this happens it burns so bad, and it happens almost every day because of my problem with the heat. We ended up not using the AC at all because it did nothing but cost money and have us breathing in a lot of dust and insulation fibers.
Lat summer was especially hard for myself and our autistic son because we have a very hard time tolerating the heat and especially the humidity. There were many days that we spent going through what felt like a heat stroke. We would get very sick with horrible headaches and vomiting. All we could do was keep cold rags on us and lay in front of a fan. It was a great relief when winter came. We had to use electric heaters for heat.
The landlord got so angry with us for continuing to ask him to fix the problem that he has given us until May first to be moved out and that date is coming fast and we have still not found a house that we can move into in our area and price range that does not have mold in it.
Here is a letter that my husband recently wrote to one of his friends about our situation;
I don't burden myself with it daily, but I just keep on tackling life one day at a time. About 7 years ago, I had a good paying job, owned a house, and basically thought everything was going well. One night I went in to work to discover I wouldn't be working there anymore. My boss said I was one of his best men, and everyone said I would never have to worry about lay offs. Sometimes life throws curves at us. We picked up a couple paper routes, and built a nice business on Ebay dealing with antiques and collectibles, then the next brick hit the fan. I came down a flight of stairs like a kid, but I don't wear a young mans clothes anymore, and my back spoke up to say it wasn't so young anymore either. I had a herniated disk, a bulging disk, and degerative disk disease, I've lost about 3 inches of height since then. I could no longer stand up and work, something I'd done all my life, we were forced to file bankruptcy, we were talked into putting our house in the bankruptcy by our attorney, then when the mortgage company filed for a relief from stay, our attorney never responded so we got a foreclosure compiled on top of our bankruptcy. We could no longer do Ebay because of my back, the packing, hours at the auction, etc. We worked two paper routes for a few years, until my back degenerated to a point where I could not spend 3 hours in the car anymore. My back has improved since then, but I still have to be careful and cannot spend lengthy periods of time on my feet and need good support behind my lower back when I sit. Social Security denied me three times, so I was left on my own, penniless, out of work, and unable to work a significant job, with 4 children still living at home, one of which is handicapped. For the past seven years we have lived on our wits. I still run a paper route, we get a small SSI check for our autistic boy, and have taught ourselves how to make money on the internet. I have an affiliate web site that I advertise and sell electronic equipment on, it did real well this past Christmas season, but we had to use the money to pay off debts we incurred over the past couple years trying to learn how to survive and paying bills. We've looked at houses in the area for the past year, and have found nothing within our budget that isn't mold infested. We did find one place, but for some reason the landlord will not rent to us. He is a young kid, and I think our bankruptcy scares him. Funny, we've danced for seven years on the edge of anxiety and disaster, yet my faith and my family have kept us going, and we have never lost hope. What we really would like to do is get an RV and travel the country working gourd shows. We worked one in Ohio on a cold rainy weekend and made about $600 selling Carmella's hand cream, the gourd report booklets, and gourd charts, but we had to pay the $600 to pay for the RV rental. It was a test that tells us we could do it, in conjunction with the internet work, but due to the bankruptcy and foreclosure, we can't get financing on an RV, and my greatest fear is if we move to NM, we have no job lined up and renters will be weary of that. I'd take a tent and live in it if we had to, but somehow we have to find a way out of here because of how the mold is affecting us. Carmella actually suffers from Mold induced Fibromyalgia like symptoms, and we all have respiratory problems as a result of the mold exposure from the house we lived in. Oh yeah, I didn't mention it was the house we moved into after losing our house 7 years ago. Anyway, it was my turn to ramble... I know somehow our needs will always be provided and we will find a way some where, and we will continue to keep on working and pushing ourselves. one day the dam will burst and we will breathe easy again, we just haven't found the right crack in the dam yet. LOL....
It is costing us in excess of $1000 per month to rent someone else's house and pay utilities, and our paper route only covers about $700 of that. We could easily pay for a travel trailer or RV, even without the paper route just by our internet business, but when the system failed us and no one wants to loan to us, we cannot even make any changes to help ourselves. We need someone willing and caring enough to offer us a hand up, not a hand out.
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We've come to the conclusion that we really need to somehow get an RV or Travel Trailer, and leave the Midwest. Our disabilities make it hard to work much of any work outside the home, but we are talented and crafty, and can do odd jobs here and there. A travel trailer or Rv would enable us to travel and work in different RV parks to help pay our pad rent and utilities, and we would be able to go to gourd shows and art and craft shows where we could sell our creations. More importantly though, we will be able to teach others about the dangers of mold and with God's help, we will be able to keep others from going through the pain and torment that we have. Also traveling the Country for awhile would be a lot of fun and a very welcome diversion from all the pain we've endured. We homeschool our children, and traveling the Country in an RV has become a big thing with homeschoolers because of the History and Geography education that is out there for RV'ers. Not too mention we have all dreamed about Rv'ing full time for about 2 years now, ever since we realized how bad the mold is here in the Midwest.
We so greatly appreciate you reading our story and considering our ideas. We hope to hear from you soon.
God Bless you, Sincerely, Carmella and Dan Dunkin (317) 364-3700
dan_carmella@thegourdreserve.com
Personal references:
Our Pastor from Hope's Point Baptist Church where we are members in good standing;
Edwin Mohr
Below are a couple of the web sites we have done;
http://www.thejoyofhope.com http://www/thegourdreserve.com
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